As the core of my writing is to make you understand that you are only the product of your conditions…PERIOD. Whatever you do, choose, behave, comes from your instinct desires, which have been product of your circumstances and you didn’t choose your circumstances, rather they chose you. Example – neither you chose your parents nor they chose you, whatever good or bad that may be, both sides, you both were helpless. Destiny chose you for them and them for you.

Having said that, all we experience in life is our own and that cannot be experienced by anyone else. Never. Even if you are trying to explain that to others, they may sympathise but can’t really feel the way you do, that’s impossible. Only the way they can do it, if they are born from your parents and have exactly the same experience as you, but if you see that coming, you will see, they will be only YOU.

Nonetheless so as you can only be you and cannot be someone else, everything you experience is only yours and related to you only. When you are stuck in traffic and think, I wish I have taken the other route, you are just making yourself sad by thinking of other route as the other route doesn’t exist anymore.

We experience and see things and think, they are happening to all, No, they are just happening to you and rest other things do not exist.

so whatever you do belongs to only you!

Coming to Einstein’s theory of relativity, when Einstein was asked about the theory of relativity, he jokingly answered, when you sit with a beautiful lady then you feel one hour passed in flick of a second and if you sit on a hot burner then 1 minute of sitting will be more than one hour.

This statement was so damn true and so lightly explained, i’ll explain with the below example.

First know that, “time is just a thought” and when it comes, it brings misery in your life, for example, you want to buy a house, that’s a fair expectation from life but if you want to buy a house in 2 years, this will start killing you and make you feel anxious and if you are unsuccessful then it will make you feel unworthy of living also.

So time is thought, a dangerous thought though. Now, when we enjoy something fully, at that time we are in the moment and are without thought, when we are without thought, we are without time, when we are without time we don’t rationalise our feelings that are totally pure and coming directly from the heart. Taking Einstein’s example, when you are sitting with a pretty lady or a man of your dreams then all you have is your feelings, that come from the heart directly and since you have kept them lose, the mind is not acting, because of which there is no thought coming and you just felt an hour but whole day has gone and you are sick of leaving your partner now. On the contrary, when you are at work or anything which you don’t enjoy much, brings you lots of thoughts like , I don’t like it, what am i doing here, i could be this, some other thoughts which are not related to that job, however, if you like your job then you wouldn’t have those thought and you will again be in thoughtless state whatsoever. So anything which makes you fuzzy or bring lots of thought in your mind, kills you internally and you feel like time is stopped and not going anywhere.

This may be specially felt while having sex, if you are counting how many minutes you survived in the bed, you have just f***ed up your true feelings. And many businesses are taking advantage of showing people this picture and making them more miserable. If you are with your partner and you are able to last only a minute or an hour by the standard time, it is just relative, you wouldn’t know until you see the watch, why to see that and measure yourself, measure how good you felt or made your partner felt, that’s it, that’s the thing your require. Why to compare the true feelings with that stupid creation of man (watch in this case) which has made everything standard for all.

It is all relative, we are wasting our time on earth by comparing to the standards, that have been created by man to get depressed day by day.

Pain is in everything, but you must choose your pain, that’s life.

Ending with lots of love!

Happy reading 🙂